I met with a CEO last week at RSA. He sat down with senior private equity professionals from 5 firms in a single day.  All of them are interested in his company.  At the beginning of the day he thought he would take the meetings, pick a partner, and ask for an LOI.  Now he realizes that he has made a tactical error.  He is in direct conversations with 5 potential bidders, but he has not set it up as a competitive process and he is negotiating with his future bosses. 

“I need an intermediary to turn this into a process,” he said.  “I don’t want to piss them off.  I don’t know what all the terms are that we have to get in place.  I don’t have a position on valuation except for an arbitrary number that my partners and I picked out of hat.  I don’t know what to ask them for in order to keep things moving.  I don’t know how to restart the process if it stalls.  I’m a smart guy and I can figure all that out, but the price will be lower, the structure will be worse, and the whole thing might come apart.” 

I am looking forward to having him on a panel.  He gets it.  He will arm himself properly before going into battle again.